We must actively try and correct people we know and love when they say things that are not only out of line, but that are also hurtful to us. We have to actively engage with people to try and provide new perspectives while simultaneously disengaging from folks who truly aim to harm our relationship and us as individuals. Love—at all times, but especially in a time of Ferguson—means that you have to be willing and open to engaging in dialogue with your loved ones on what’s happening to (y)our people.